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程神父你好！我已婚十一年，但跟丈夫自從生了小孩之後，一直再沒有性生活，因為我們第一次性行為後就有了小孩，自此我心理壓力很大，也對性完全沒有興趣，丈夫很尊重我也沒有說什麼，久而久之丈夫也習慣了，十年就過去，其實我們算不算對婚姻不負責任？有沒有犯罪？

程神父你好！我已婚十一年，但跟丈夫自從生了小孩之後，一直再沒有性生活，因為我們第一次性行為後就有了小孩，自此我心理壓力很大，也對性完全沒有興趣，丈夫很尊重我也沒有說什麼，久而久之丈夫也習慣了，十年就過去，其實我們算不算對婚姻不負責任？有沒有犯罪？

神父您好!我是最近領洗的新教友，我知道基督徒是不能有婚前性行為的，但是這件事我在慕道前已經做了… 男友也一直是同一位(他並非基督徒)，最近我跟他提起我希望遵守這項教理時，他也願意尊重我支持我的決定，但我不免還是有個疑惑是:我在以前已經與他有過性行為，那我現在的守貞依然還有意義嗎? 謝謝您!

神父您好!我是最近領洗的新教友，我知道基督徒是不能有婚前性行為的，但是這件事我在慕道前已經做了… 男友也一直是同一位(他並非基督徒)，最近我跟他提起我希望遵守這項教理時，他也願意尊重我支持我的決定，但我不免還是有個疑惑是:我在以前已經與他有過性行為，那我現在的守貞依然還有意義嗎? 謝謝您!

如果因為害怕離婚就不能領聖體這件事，我可以因此就一直和男友(他非教友)保持交往狀態，不要結婚就好嗎? 因為身邊有很多結了婚才發現有許多變故及磨擦(完全無法改變或忍受的那種)，我很怕自己最後也會這樣。

如果因為害怕離婚就不能領聖體這件事，我可以因此就一直和男友(他非教友)保持交往狀態，不要結婚就好嗎? 因為身邊有很多結了婚才發現有許多變故及磨擦(完全無法改變或忍受的那種)，我很怕自己最後也會這樣。

教廷於12月18日發表的《懇求的信賴》（Fiducia supplicans）聲明，是否意味著天主教會變相祝福同性婚姻？如果不是的話，在主流傳媒鋪天蓋地的錯誤解讀下，天主教徒該怎樣使人明白天主教會有關婚姻的教義？

教廷於12月18日發表的《懇求的信賴》（Fiducia supplicans）聲明，是否意味著天主教會變相祝福同性婚姻？如果不是的話，在主流傳媒鋪天蓋地的錯誤解讀下，天主教徒該怎樣使人明白天主教會有關婚姻的教義？

神父您好！我請教一個問題，申命紀中對遵守天主法律者的祝福，在現在依然有效嗎？現在我們遵守天主的法律，還能夠得到天主在申命紀28章所應許的祝福嗎？特別是這幾年我獲得很艱難，經常問別人借錢，我發現，申命紀15:6和28:12都應許，衹要謹守天主的誡命，就不需要向別人借錢，相反，還要大量施捨給別人。我看了這兩節經文以後，反思，是不是我沒有好好遵守天主的誡命，犯罪得罪天主，才導致我需要經常問別人借錢？如果我好好悔改走天主的道路，這兩節經文的祝福是不是就會臨到我身上？

神父您好！我請教一個問題，申命紀中對遵守天主法律者的祝福，在現在依然有效嗎？現在我們遵守天主的法律，還能夠得到天主在申命紀28章所應許的祝福嗎？特別是這幾年我獲得很艱難，經常問別人借錢，我發現，申命紀15:6和28:12都應許，衹要謹守天主的誡命，就不需要向別人借錢，相反，還要大量施捨給別人。我看了這兩節經文以後，反思，是不是我沒有好好遵守天主的誡命，犯罪得罪天主，才導致我需要經常問別人借錢？如果我好好悔改走天主的道路，這兩節經文的祝福是不是就會臨到我身上？

程神父你好,想知道如何幫配偶或父母選擇醫療服務的時候,不會做錯決定犯了十誡中的殺人罪。記得和母親入護理院時,他們的服務分為四級。第一級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不服用抗生素,不轉送醫院。第二級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不轉送醫院,骨折皮膚外傷除外,必須時服用抗生素。第三級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,會轉送醫院,會給服用抗生素。第四級：當心臟和呼吸停止時會進行急救轉送醫院。請問該如何選擇。

程神父你好,想知道如何幫配偶或父母選擇醫療服務的時候,不會做錯決定犯了十誡中的殺人罪。記得和母親入護理院時,他們的服務分為四級。第一級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不服用抗生素,不轉送醫院。第二級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不轉送醫院,骨折皮膚外傷除外,必須時服用抗生素。第三級：當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,會轉送醫院,會給服用抗生素。第四級：當心臟和呼吸停止時會進行急救轉送醫院。請問該如何選擇。

就教宗對同性戀立場的發問: https://www.bbc.com/zhongwen/trad/world-54642887教宗方濟各支持同性戀民事結合的立場，是否與天主教傳統教義有差異? 教會對同性戀問題應持何種立場？教宗的言論是否反映時代的轉變? 這是否正確? 宗教教義可不可以因時而改?

就教宗對同性戀立場的發問: https://www.bbc.com/zhongwen/trad/world-54642887教宗方濟各支持同性戀民事結合的立場，是否與天主教傳統教義有差異? 教會對同性戀問題應持何種立場？教宗的言論是否反映時代的轉變? 這是否正確? 宗教教義可不可以因時而改?

How can I ask for forgiveness from my deceased mother, because I gave her a lot of troubles and back answered her answered her back all the time. I regretted it totally and I asked God everytime for forgiveness every time. What can I do more to fully make her fully understand and repent as I feel guilty and drained for all what that I did to her.? What penance or what should I do to tell her I love her and I am sorry for all what that I did to her.? She was for me but, to my poor understanding, I didn’t recognize it at that time. Help me father.

How can I ask for forgiveness from my deceased mother, because I gave her a lot of troubles and back answered her answered her back all the time. I regretted it totally and I asked God everytime for forgiveness every time. What can I do more to fully make her fully understand and repent as I feel guilty and drained for all what that I did to her.? What penance or what should I do to tell her I love her and I am sorry for all what that I did to her.? She was for me but, to my poor understanding, I didn’t recognize it at that time. Help me father.

您好程神父，我有一個問題想請教您，請問啟(默)示錄22：18-19描述了一個不可饒恕的罪嗎？如果有人在過去曾經犯過這個罪，但他們向天主悔改過了，他們信主耶穌了，請問他們還能得救嗎？

您好程神父，我有一個問題想請教您，請問啟(默)示錄22：18-19描述了一個不可饒恕的罪嗎？如果有人在過去曾經犯過這個罪，但他們向天主悔改過了，他們信主耶穌了，請問他們還能得救嗎？

Speaking of Matthew 25:14-30, I guess we all run into similar dilemma when doing annual review with our financial advisor in recent memories. While joking aside, Matthew 24:30 sounds like a mean gesture towards the receiving end, how should we fit in the scripture as aforementioned to the circumstances in your opinion?

Speaking of Matthew 25:14-30, I guess we all run into similar dilemma when doing annual review with our financial advisor in recent memories. While joking aside, Matthew 24:30 sounds like a mean gesture towards the receiving end, how should we fit in the scripture as aforementioned to the circumstances in your opinion?

如果只是覺得中國神話裡的神獸雕像很可愛，而想作為擺飾，這樣是否有違背天主的意思？

如果只是覺得中國神話裡的神獸雕像很可愛，而想作為擺飾，這樣是否有違背天主的意思？

Is it against Catholic beliefs to celebrate pride?

Is it against Catholic beliefs to celebrate pride?

Father Ching, I pray to God, ask intercessions from Mother Mary and St. Joseph. I also pray to 6 other Saints for their intercessions according to different needs. Am I wrong in doing that? I feel that I am not having enough faith in God and not having enough trust on Mother Mary and St. Joseph’s intercessions. I know the Saints pray for us and they received permission from God to perform miracles. So I’m actually a bit confused. I’m desperate about my family’s various situations.

Father Ching, I pray to God, ask intercessions from Mother Mary and St. Joseph. I also pray to 6 other Saints for their intercessions according to different needs. Am I wrong in doing that? I feel that I am not having enough faith in God and not having enough trust on Mother Mary and St. Joseph’s intercessions. I know the Saints pray for us and they received permission from God to perform miracles. So I’m actually a bit confused. I’m desperate about my family’s various situations.

How can I concentrate when I pray, even though every time I reminded myself have to concentrate, don’t think of others stuff but always fail, even I’m attending a Mass, can’t 100% concentrate on all the readings or during sermon. Does it means i don’t have faith or not enough?

How can I concentrate when I pray, even though every time I reminded myself have to concentrate, don’t think of others stuff but always fail, even I’m attending a Mass, can’t 100% concentrate on all the readings or during sermon. Does it means i don’t have faith or not enough?

什麼是福傳？福傳就是改變他人的信仰？福傳是不是要在他的生命當中做到完美無缺才能夠福傳？是不是要在他的信仰當中能夠活出信仰，能夠為基督作見證才能夠福傳？哪什麼是為基督作見證？如果一個人在他的生命當中有他自己的個人缺點，生活中找不到或不是怎麼清楚自己在哪方面可以做出信仰見證的例子，那是不是不能向人宣講天主教信仰？

什麼是福傳？福傳就是改變他人的信仰？福傳是不是要在他的生命當中做到完美無缺才能夠福傳？是不是要在他的信仰當中能夠活出信仰，能夠為基督作見證才能夠福傳？哪什麼是為基督作見證？如果一個人在他的生命當中有他自己的個人缺點，生活中找不到或不是怎麼清楚自己在哪方面可以做出信仰見證的例子，那是不是不能向人宣講天主教信仰？

What am I supposed to feel when my younger brother brings his girlfriend to our house to stay overnight every day, even when I tried to voice out that this somewhat feels not right, but then my parents and my brother are totally against me and even arguments happened and made me feel so hurtful as they think that I am too conservative. Nevertheless I‘d apologised for voicing out and not being very polite to the girlfriend. Can I just keep quiet from now on already since nobody will listen to me.

What am I supposed to feel when my younger brother brings his girlfriend to our house to stay overnight every day, even when I tried to voice out that this somewhat feels not right, but then my parents and my brother are totally against me and even arguments happened and made me feel so hurtful as they think that I am too conservative. Nevertheless I‘d apologised for voicing out and not being very polite to the girlfriend. Can I just keep quiet from now on already since nobody will listen to me.

As a Catholic teenager living in the UK, June is ‘Pride month’ for the LGBT community, how should we see it as Catholics and how to have a conversation with LGBTQ+ people as me and my Catholic friends are having an online debate with some LGBT atheist. Also how should we view Christians from other denominations that celebrate pride and goes to pride parade as well as Catholics that are LGBT? God bless.

As a Catholic teenager living in the UK, June is ‘Pride month’ for the LGBT community, how should we see it as Catholics and how to have a conversation with LGBTQ+ people as me and my Catholic friends are having an online debate with some LGBT atheist. Also how should we view Christians from other denominations that celebrate pride and goes to pride parade as well as Catholics that are LGBT? God bless.

天主教一直在做跨宗教信仰的活動目的是為世界和平，環境污染以及人民福祉等問題而做的積極推動者。在其它宗教信仰上也承認其它宗教信仰的內容裡也有部分的真善美。那請問對勸化世人歸向基督的傳教工作來說，是否會有幫助？對於舊約時代的猶太人看待其它宗教信仰的態度，教會在歷史的過程中也對其他宗教信仰也曾有排斥的態度，可到了今時今日這種比較排斥保守的態度對傳教工作的進展情況是不是行不通了，所以才做出的改變？那是不是表示不信基督的人也沒問題？其它宗教依照他們的信仰生活來活，是否也有各自不同的去處？勸人歸向耶穌，但又捍衛每個人都享有宗教信仰的自由，是否有些不妥？

天主教一直在做跨宗教信仰的活動目的是為世界和平，環境污染以及人民福祉等問題而做的積極推動者。在其它宗教信仰上也承認其它宗教信仰的內容裡也有部分的真善美。那請問對勸化世人歸向基督的傳教工作來說，是否會有幫助？對於舊約時代的猶太人看待其它宗教信仰的態度，教會在歷史的過程中也對其他宗教信仰也曾有排斥的態度，可到了今時今日這種比較排斥保守的態度對傳教工作的進展情況是不是行不通了，所以才做出的改變？那是不是表示不信基督的人也沒問題？其它宗教依照他們的信仰生活來活，是否也有各自不同的去處？勸人歸向耶穌，但又捍衛每個人都享有宗教信仰的自由，是否有些不妥？

If I was Catholic before, but left the church, what do I do to become catholic again? I went every Sunday with my family, baptized as an infant, had my First Communion, Confirmation, but not my wedding. My husband was a Baptist, so we were married in a Baptist Church. Ten years later, I want to raise my family in a Catholic Church, as does he. What do I do?

If I was Catholic before, but left the church, what do I do to become catholic again? I went every Sunday with my family, baptized as an infant, had my First Communion, Confirmation, but not my wedding. My husband was a Baptist, so we were married in a Baptist Church. Ten years later, I want to raise my family in a Catholic Church, as does he. What do I do?

之前聽過有非教友誤領聖體的事情，而結果不是被神父責罵就是被教友暗中提醒。如果神父今天遇到不是公教教友誤領公教聖體，會不會有一個既定程序去調查相關案件？

之前聽過有非教友誤領聖體的事情，而結果不是被神父責罵就是被教友暗中提醒。如果神父今天遇到不是公教教友誤領公教聖體，會不會有一個既定程序去調查相關案件？

With the protests, riots and violence in HK and the US, it’s a challenge for me to let go and stay peaceful. My children have different opinions and one doesn’t communicate with the rest of the family. She’s a heart of a Stone: The US way of upbringing, my limitations have driven us apart. Having a harmonious relationship and communication become impossible. How can I let go and find INNER PEACE?

With the protests, riots and violence in HK and the US, it’s a challenge for me to let go and stay peaceful. My children have different opinions and one doesn’t communicate with the rest of the family. She’s a heart of a Stone: The US way of upbringing, my limitations have driven us apart. Having a harmonious relationship and communication become impossible. How can I let go and find INNER PEACE?

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