程神父您好! 我同我男朋友拍咗拖5個月,大家都係讀緊書,喺世青認識。 我同佢都係born catholic,佢一直都係好虔誠嘅教徒,會頌唸玫瑰經、司琴,而我曾經都係遊離嘅教徒,喺一齊之後變得更虔誠,亦都喺教會內有唔少服務。 今日佢突然同我講,佢好似收到聖召,想做神父,我唔太接受到。一方面我好想支持佢,覺得收到聖召係非常光榮嘅事,另一方面,我好擔心自己將來,因為我都幾情緒化,好擔心會因為佢影響我學業甚至揾工。雖然佢都同神父傾過,依家佢呢個情況會唔會拖住我、耽誤我,但佢哋傾完後,覺得喺未確定聖召前都可以繼續同我一齊。我哋仲係好鍾意對方。好想知道有冇神父都係拍緊拖突然收到聖召而分手,同埋想問作為女朋友,應該點樣處理自己嘅心情、情緒。我覺得自己好似有啲自私,明明收到召叫應該要鄧佢開心⋯⋯ 🙏🏻😭
1) Will it lead to superstition to greet people with 「恭喜發財」 during Chinese New Year? 2) Are all the Chinese New Year 「揮春」 like the 「福字」 and the symbols of the 「十二生肖」 will be the cracks to let Satan sneak into our house? 3) Can we read the little paper from the fortune cookies for fun?
您好,我有關於聖召的問題想請教閣下: 我想成為修女,身穿會衣直接以服務去光榮天主和使我們的關係提升,但至今我一次聖召活動都無法參加,單單此問題我在這頁面已寫了第3次總是error。我不知如何問修女和apply體驗修院生活,亦不知如何請教神師? 此外數年前(我一直單身),一位有先知之恩的親友(教友)藉一次經歷告訴我未來會结婚,丈夫早逝,成為單親媽咪(有考慮丈夫逝後等子女長大後做修女)。 但這使我現在更擔心,我現在追求聖召是否等於在拒絕天主? 天主給人的路會否藉着時間/人成長中選擇而變?
How many times should we forgive friends or relatives? I feel like a fool, weaken character, relying on people, let them walk on me like a door mat, offered chances over and over again to be hurt instead, Jesus taught us to forgive 7×7. It is absolutely difficult to face in reality, but just to ignore. I can’t change people but to change myself.
程神父你好!我已婚十一年,但跟丈夫自從生了小孩之後,一直再沒有性生活,因為我們第一次性行為後就有了小孩,自此我心理壓力很大,也對性完全沒有興趣,丈夫很尊重我也沒有說什麼,久而久之丈夫也習慣了,十年就過去,其實我們算不算對婚姻不負責任?有沒有犯罪?
神父您好!我是最近領洗的新教友,我知道基督徒是不能有婚前性行為的,但是這件事我在慕道前已經做了… 男友也一直是同一位(他並非基督徒),最近我跟他提起我希望遵守這項教理時,他也願意尊重我支持我的決定,但我不免還是有個疑惑是:我在以前已經與他有過性行為,那我現在的守貞依然還有意義嗎? 謝謝您!
教廷於12月18日發表的《懇求的信賴》(Fiducia supplicans)聲明,是否意味著天主教會變相祝福同性婚姻?如果不是的話,在主流傳媒鋪天蓋地的錯誤解讀下,天主教徒該怎樣使人明白天主教會有關婚姻的教義?
神父您好!我請教一個問題,申命紀中對遵守天主法律者的祝福,在現在依然有效嗎?現在我們遵守天主的法律,還能夠得到天主在申命紀28章所應許的祝福嗎? 特別是這幾年我獲得很艱難,經常問別人借錢,我發現,申命紀15:6和28:12都應許,衹要謹守天主的誡命,就不需要向別人借錢,相反,還要大量施捨給別人。 我看了這兩節經文以後,反思,是不是我沒有好好遵守天主的誡命,犯罪得罪天主,才導致我需要經常問別人借錢?如果我好好悔改走天主的道路,這兩節經文的祝福是不是就會臨到我身上?
程神父你好,想知道如何幫配偶或父母選擇醫療服務的時候,不會做錯決定犯了十誡中的殺人罪。記得和母親入護理院時,他們的服務分為四級。 第一級:當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不服用抗生素,不轉送醫院。 第二級:當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,不轉送醫院,骨折皮膚外傷除外,必須時服用抗生素。 第三級:當心臟和呼吸停止時無需急救,會轉送醫院,會給服用抗生素。 第四級:當心臟和呼吸停止時會進行急救轉送醫院。 請問該如何選擇。
就教宗對同性戀立場的發問: https://www.bbc.com/zhongwen/trad/world-54642887教宗方濟各支持同性戀民事結合的立場,是否與天主教傳統教義有差異? 教會對同性戀問題應持何種立場? 教宗的言論是否反映時代的轉變? 這是否正確? 宗教教義可不可以因時而改?
How can I ask for forgiveness from my deceased mother, because I gave her a lot of troubles and back answered her answered her back all the time. I regretted it totally and I asked God everytime for forgiveness every time. What can I do more to fully make her fully understand and repent as I feel guilty and drained for all what that I did to her.? What penance or what should I do to tell her I love her and I am sorry for all what that I did to her.? She was for me but, to my poor understanding, I didn’t recognize it at that time. Help me father.
Speaking of Matthew 25:14-30, I guess we all run into similar dilemma when doing annual review with our financial advisor in recent memories. While joking aside, Matthew 24:30 sounds like a mean gesture towards the receiving end, how should we fit in the scripture as aforementioned to the circumstances in your opinion?
Father Ching, I pray to God, ask intercessions from Mother Mary and St. Joseph. I also pray to 6 other Saints for their intercessions according to different needs. Am I wrong in doing that? I feel that I am not having enough faith in God and not having enough trust on Mother Mary and St. Joseph’s intercessions. I know the Saints pray for us and they received permission from God to perform miracles. So I’m actually a bit confused. I’m desperate about my family’s various situations.
How can I concentrate when I pray, even though every time I reminded myself have to concentrate, don’t think of others stuff but always fail, even I’m attending a Mass, can’t 100% concentrate on all the readings or during sermon. Does it means i don’t have faith or not enough?
什麼是福傳?福傳就是改變他人的信仰? 福傳是不是要在他的生命當中做到完美無缺才能夠福傳? 是不是要在他的信仰當中能夠活出信仰,能夠為基督作見證才能夠福傳? 哪什麼是為基督作見證?如果一個人在他的生命當中有他自己的個人缺點,生活中找不到或不是怎麼清楚自己在哪方面可以做出信仰見證的例子,那是不是不能向人宣講天主教信仰?