程神父你好!請問拜偶像的定義是什麼?喜歡某些歌手/ 演員可以嗎?收藏模型車/玩具車可以嗎?收藏籃球員和歌手的figure可以嗎?玩和把毛公仔放在家裏可以嗎?是不是只需不要有崇拜的心就可以?而怎樣才是拜偶像呢,可否以日常生活舉例?望神父抽空解答!
I’m catholic. Relationship with my parents has been bad since I was small. Domestic violence and now attempt control of finances. Recent years I decided to cut off relationships/contacts. I couldn’t hold longer, need focus on jobs. Am I still welcome at Church? “Honor thy father and thy mother.” Am I still a Catholic? If so, is this approval valid to all churches? Or different countries have their own rules and moral judges based on the culture? I currently live in a Southeast Asia country.
有一次我想邀請非教友的朋友參加慕道班,她說我們天主教主張「無名基督徒」,只要人行善,力行愛德,就算冇宗教信仰都可以升天堂,所以不用參加慕道班,也不用領洗入教。 坦白說,我對「無名基督徒」這名稱教會的取態有點不肯定,教會是接受還是不接受呢? 如果是接受,我應該怎樣說服我朋友參加慕道班,然後領洗入教?如果不接受,會和她分享。我也想趁這次機會補習一下。 謝謝!主佑!
程神父,你好。我的姪女兒是一個同性戀者,她與伴侶已一同生活多年。每次我與她們見面亦都會互相擁抱,視姪女兒的伴侶如一個朋友看待。現在她們結婚了,邀請我去觀禮。我想請問在舉止說話上,有什麼我需要注意的,以避免我犯罪呢?謝謝!
I am a teacher, and would like to give guardian angel cards to students, do I need to ask Father to bless the cards first before giving the cards to students?
神父,有時常見一些國外熱心的教友,能得聖人的一級、二級聖髑,作教友個人敬禮之用。請問是否透過向教會申請的方式取得?如何申請的呢?申請步驟為何? 有時也在網上看到有人在販賣所謂的一級、二級聖髑,除了不參予買賣外,我們又該如何看待這些正在被販賣的聖髑呢?
神父你好,我今年十二歲,某些時候常常會有手淫的衝動,有好幾次我都忍住了,但最近洗完澡後終於破了防,忍不住手淫了。這個問題也困擾了我一段時間,每一次犯了這樣的錯,就去辦吿解,辦完告解又這樣重複下去。神父,我該怎麼辦?
程神父好,明確聽到修道聖召的召叫,也願意答覆祂,但家人強烈反對,我該毅然決然前往嗎?現在一邊工作中仍常同時思想著回應聖召,明明聽見召叫卻遲遲沒有勇氣衝破反對而答覆的這段時間,好難受!我知道也有為家人祈禱,但不明白要如何和天主更好地合作,才能走在祂的計劃中。
神父您好,請問怎樣才是有效的發誓?因為有一天我對自己說:「你再這樣就會下地獄!」事後,我很擔心會不會是發了誓(我當時正在游泳)從此以後,我便常常以「會下地獄」來阻止自己做某些事(不是罪),腦內又常常想著「我發誓…」我很擔心會不小心發了誓會下地獄,求神父指點!
Some folks from the church introduced Catholic charismatic prayer practice. One of them said she was a prophet who could deliver Jesus’s raw thoughts about my life to me. I feel uncomfortable and weird. What is your opinion on this kind of prayer practice?