我們應該把痛苦的經歷全交給天主?還是作為保貴的一課去記著?另外,雖然已經有在努力但仍然會犯錯,以及每次想起洗禮前自己所犯的大錯都會非常感到對不起上主,因為有些過去了事情是怎樣也補贖不到的,很害怕不能光榮天主之餘反而讓天主因我而蒙羞,應該怎樣辦呢?

我們應該把痛苦的經歷全交給天主?還是作為保貴的一課去記著?另外,雖然已經有在努力但仍然會犯錯,以及每次想起洗禮前自己所犯的大錯都會非常感到對不起上主,因為有些過去了事情是怎樣也補贖不到的,很害怕不能光榮天主之餘反而讓天主因我而蒙羞,應該怎樣辦呢?

放手,即選擇不再被束縛,不等同於忘記。忘記並不是隨意,不是你想就可以忘記。放手是將過去的痛楚交予基督,換過來去相信祂的慈悲大過我和別人的罪,放心去相信祂愛我。我是罪人,但我切切實實是基督愛的罪人,是祂真真給回我自由的罪人。我所以天天看着我的過去,而不再見到痛楚和羞愧,而是看到祂慈悲的偉大,祂的愛肯定的希望。...
My husband and I have not have sex for over a year because I was pregnant for 9 months and had health issues so we could not have sex during pregnancy. I am now 3 months postpartum and not sure when my fertility will return. I gave birth by cesarean so it’s not safe to have another baby until 18 months. My question is, can Catholic married couples use contraception in a situation like this? I don’t want my husband to masturbate if I keep him waiting.

My husband and I have not have sex for over a year because I was pregnant for 9 months and had health issues so we could not have sex during pregnancy. I am now 3 months postpartum and not sure when my fertility will return. I gave birth by cesarean so it’s not safe to have another baby until 18 months. My question is, can Catholic married couples use contraception in a situation like this? I don’t want my husband to masturbate if I keep him waiting.

The short answer to your question is no. Contraception is not just prevention of contraception, but it is really anti-union and anti-life, which is the very opposite of the marital embrace. It is anti-union, because for the sake of “meeting one’s sexual needs”, you...
今天是常年期二十主日,有關瑪15:21-28耶穌稱讚客納罕婦人的信德真大。相同的經文在兩星期前也出現過(十八主日),請問是否有特別意思在短時間內重覆出現?

今天是常年期二十主日,有關瑪15:21-28耶穌稱讚客納罕婦人的信德真大。相同的經文在兩星期前也出現過(十八主日),請問是否有特別意思在短時間內重覆出現?

簡單的答案是:沒有。 教會的彌撒讀經,主日與平日的編排是不一樣的。 主日分為甲乙丙三年,甲年讀瑪竇,乙年馬爾谷,丙年路德。特別在常年期,在主日會抽樣將那年的福音中部有關耶穌的事蹟和教導的部份順序讀完。今年是甲年,所以讀瑪竇。 平日讀經分為一二兩年,也是嘗試將三本福音順序讀完。不過因為天天讀,選讀的篇幅可以更多,亦會比主日的次序讀得更快,所以如今年,就先讀瑪竇,讀完了,就轉讀路加。...
請問教友可否做冥想?

請問教友可否做冥想?

冥想,跟佛家,道家,印度教的冥想,和時下的新世代默想,或長生學,或mindfulness meditation,全部都有一樣的核心元素,就是要當事人空虛自己的思念,然後在那空虛中發生甚麼,甚麼好的感覺,都去擁抱。 這種跟基督徒傳統的默想和默觀,有不少相似的地方,但也有一個非常相反之處。...